Thanksgiving is here, and whether you’re rolling solo or celebrating with your babies, sis, this holiday is all about one thing: gratitude. But let’s keep it real—being a single mom on Thanksgiving can be bittersweet. Maybe you’re missing family traditions, or maybe you’re finally free to do Thanksgiving your way.
Whichever way the turkey rolls, it’s time to flip the script and make this Thanksgiving an unapologetic celebration of YOU. You’re the chef, the vibe curator, and the MVP of your family. So, let’s serve up some fun, love, and maybe even a little sexy sparkle.
1. Make Gratitude Your Glam Superpower
Before the turkey comes out (or the takeout arrives—no judgment!), start your day with gratitude. Put on your favorite playlist, pour yourself a mimosa or a coffee in that cute mug, and journal three things you’re thankful for.
If your kiddos are with you, make it a group activity—get them to write or draw what makes them happy. Feeling yourself and your blessings? That energy will set the tone for a soulful day.
2. Ditch the Rules and Plan Your Way
Who says Thanksgiving has to be all-day cooking and stiff traditions? Not you! If you’ve got the kids, let them pick an activity or two—like watching the Macy’s parade in your PJs or playing football in the yard.
If you’re flying solo, girl, this is your time to shine. Plan a day of pure YOU. Spa day at home? Streaming your favorite rom-coms? Diving into that book you’ve been meaning to read? This holiday is all yours, boo.
3. Remix Your Traditions
Let’s talk traditions: some are worth keeping, but others? Meh. Why not shake things up?
If you’re with your kids, let them help craft a new Thanksgiving ritual. A gratitude jar? A family selfie contest? Or maybe a karaoke battle featuring Beyoncé’s “Renaissance” album.
Flying solo? Light some candles, pour a glass of wine, and start a tradition of writing yourself a love letter—what you’ve accomplished, what you’re proud of, and what dreams you’re chasing next.
4. Serve Looks (and Food) That Feel Good
Look, you don’t need to whip up a five-course feast to feel like a boss. Keep it simple, chic, and fun. Roast a chicken or snag a pre-made meal from the store (pro tip: Whole Foods is clutch).
Make the table as fabulous as you are—think candles, twinkling fairy lights, or a fun theme (hello, “Thanksgiving in Paris!”). And, mama, don’t forget to dress up for you. Whether it’s cozy loungewear or a sparkly dress, serve a look that screams, “I’m the moment.”
5. Call in the Crew for a ‘Friendsgiving’
If the kids are with their other parent, it’s time to call in your tribe. Invite your friends over for a glam Friendsgiving or hop on a group FaceTime to toast to friendship.
You can make it low-key with pizza and wine or go full-on potluck style. Either way, you’re surrounded by your people—and that’s a whole vibe.
6. Make Joy Your Main Dish
This year, perfection isn’t on the menu. Burn the rolls? Forget the cranberry sauce? Girl, who cares? This Thanksgiving is about joy, not stress.
If you’re with the kids, turn up the fun: dance party in the kitchen, family board games, or a pie-eating contest (you’re the judge, of course). If you’re solo, lean into whatever brings you happiness. It’s your day—paint, sing, binge-watch, nap, or do all of the above.
7. Be Your Own MVP
The holidays can bring up all the feelings—gratitude, sadness, hope, or even a little loneliness. It’s okay to feel it all, queen.
Start your day with a pep talk in the mirror. Remind yourself: “I’m strong, sexy, and slaying this holiday like the goddess I am.” Take deep breaths, keep it light, and remember you’re creating memories for yourself and your kids, whether they’re with you or not.
Own Your Thanksgiving Glow
Single mom or not, Thanksgiving is your chance to honor the woman you are. It’s about gratitude, joy, and a little self-love. Whether you’re hosting a mini-feast with your little ones, having a full-on Friendsgiving bash, or living your best solo life, this holiday is yours to slay.
Raise a glass to yourself, mama—you’re creating magic, spreading love, and living beautifully, one thankful moment at a time. Happy Thanksgiving, queen! ✨
